Kennedy Space Center: Explore. Dream. Discover.

Our main mission in going to Titusville, Florida was to go to the Kennedy Space Center, which looked in its brochures like a combination space museum and amusement park.

Ryan’s said many times that if he had the wealth of Richard Branson, he wouldn’t hesitate to drop a large fortune on the opportunity to view Earth from Space. So it seemed impossible to be in the same neighborhood where so many historical space shuttles launched, and not visit the Space Center.

I nearly choked on my sweet tea, though, when we arrived to Kennedy Space Center and discovered admission cost $50 a person. But since we’d already paid for the cab ride there, and would have to pay for the ride back regardless, we pushed aside the question of how many Bota Boxes $100 could buy, and went inside.

And it turned out to be a good decision. The Kennedy Space Center wasn’t at all an amusement park, and it was much more than just a museum with a field full of rockets and plaques. It was an inspirational testament to what humans can achieve through extraordinary vision, determination, innovation and the unfaltering belief that anything is possible.

It kind of blew my mind to experience in a small way the historical timeline of what NASA Space Engineers have accomplished. They took barely conceivable concepts and what were Sci-Fi fantasies of the time, applied Physics (and a lot of government funding), and made these concepts a reality. And to give you an example of the dedication required, it took twelve years for the hundreds of thousands of NASA engineers and employees to successfully launch the first space rocket. Twelve years!

There were two quotes in particular that stayed with me throughout the day:

“But why, some say, the moon? Why choose this as our goal? And they may well ask why climb the highest mountain? Why, 35 years ago, fly the Atlantic? …We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard…” -John F. Kennedy (September 12, 1962)

That idea that we choose to do things “not because they are easy, but because they are hard” kind of epitomizes what I feel is the spirit of adventure and exploration. It’s about finding limits and pushing past them for the reward of stimulation, fascination and new understanding. It’s why I run marathons. And it’s why I want to sail around the world. It will be hard, no doubt, but I will see, learn and experience so much in doing so.

“It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow.” – Robert Goddard

It’s hard to fathom the ways incredibly lofty missions like “send a man to the moon” might connect to our everyday lives. But the number of products that have made their way into common use because of Space technology kind of brought that home for me. Things like polarized sunglasses, flat-screen TVs and solar panels were developed because of NASA’s work creating new materials.

And, in fact, we’ve just purchased a state-of-the-art Solbian flexible solar panel for Hideaway, which we are going to sew into the top of our dodger. So, we will soon find out what it’s like to have a modern piece of energy-saving technology on board.

It remains to be seen how well this incredibly thin, very expensive, 125-watt solar panel will work for us, but I’m very optimistic. All I can hope is that it buys us many sunny days floating on anchor without having to start our engine.

And when that happens, I’ll know who to thank: NASA.

What do you think the “reality of tomorrow” is that we have yet to imagine?

Space Shuttle Kennedy Space Center

Tasha standing under a real-life Space Shuttle.

Space Shuttle Rockets

The enormous butt-end of a Space Shuttle.

space center control room

A space shuttle control room, in the 60s. Not a computer in sight.

space shuttle launch simulator

“Houston, we have a problem.”

moon rover kennedy space center

Moon rover test drive – punch it!

Kennedy Space Center Astronaut

One small step for a cruiser.

NASA teddy bear

Can I fit him on the boat?

rocket field kennedy space center

Rocket field at sunset.

solbian flexible solar panel

Hideaway’s new flexible solar panel – trying her on for size.

Travel and Fitness: Killing 2 birds with 1 stone

When I lived in Manhattan, I often worked 12 to 14-hour days, and therefore I struggled to get out regularly for a run or a workout, even though it was crucial to my sanity (and Ryan’s – everyone’s happier when I run). So, in an effort to squeeze in some exercise, I would duck out to the gym during my lunch break, or run at midnight when I got home.

During a particularly manic period of my New York life, I was living in TriBeCa, working days in the Bronx, going to grad school at night and teaching classes in downtown Manhattan on my nights off. And during that period, I would cycle to work and back because it turned out the subway ride was an hour and ten minutes each way, as was my bike ride to the Bronx (when flat-out speed cycling). And I preferred to be on my bike in the fresh air than on a subway full of stagnant, miserable New Yorkers.

And because my work life left no time for errands, the weekend was easily devoured by those little jobs that pile up during the work week. So I often combined errands or meetings with actual running, lending new meaning to the concept of “running errands.” For example, I’d run to the store, if it was a few neighborhoods away, and walk home with my purchases, or I’d run to meet a friend for brunch and then run home.

When we set sail from New York, I thought my days of cramming stuff into my schedule were over. I was sure that I would have all the time in the world to run and cycle and exercise to my heart’s content, as I imagined I would be living a life wealthy in time, rather than money. And what else would I be doing with all that glorious time apart from running, biking, hiking, swimming and generally enjoying the outdoors? Yeah, sure, there would be some sailing and boat work mixed in, but surely the hours spent moving or maintaining the boat would be minimal. Right?

Nope. I couldn’t possibly have gotten it more wrong. Since we boarded Hideaway on October 16th and set sail for the Bahamas, I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve gotten off the boat for a good, long quality run. And it’s not because I haven’t wanted to. With the string of days traveling south running together, punctuated by our arrivals to anchorages at dusk, in the cold, only to move on again early the next day, the last two months of “cruising” has left little room for R&R (Running and Relaxation, in my book).

So, what does one do when there isn’t enough time in the day to run boat errands and go running? Well, I thought maybe I would try running those errands…literally!

When we dropped anchor in Titusville, Florida, it was early (3:30 pm, a record arrival time for us) and the weather was warm and still. I was itching to get off the boat for a run before dark, but we also had the problem that we’d run out of butane gas canisters for our portable stove. And that meant no hot-cooked meals until we replenished our supply.

With a little Googling, we found an Ace Hardware in Titusville which was only 3.5 miles away. So, instead of taking our bikes to shore, we grabbed a backpack and decided to run to the store.

And it turned out the entire town of Titusville was so impressed with our innovative approach to shopping that they came out in droves to cheer us on from their lawn chairs parked by the side of the road.

Or the townsfolk were all camped out by the side of the road waiting for the annual Christmas Parade to march through. That makes more sense. Either way, it definitely gave our little run an unexpected marathon atmosphere. A few kids even waved and cheered us on as we ran by (probably thinking we were part of the parade).

And one more benefit of our little dash to the hardware store was that carrying 4 gas canisters and some random boat items on my back while running added an extra marine-boot-camp quality to the workout, making me feel like I really earned my dinner when I got back.

Which, luckily, we could now cook on our stove, since we had stocked up on butane. See what a good idea that was?!

titusville florida run

Running route from Titusville Municipal Marina to Ace Hardware

What do you do to keep fit while cruising? Any time-saving workout ideas?

Moving on: Daytona Beach, Florida

If I told you that all I had to do today was deposit a check, you’d probably imagine I walked to a nearby bank, fiddled with my ATM card for a few minutes, walked back to my boat, then spent the rest of my glorious day lounging in the sun, sipping Mai Tais.

And you’d probably think the check-depositing portion of my day took up about 30 minutes, maybe even an hour, while the Mai-Tai-sipping portion swallowed a good, jolly 6 hours.

In that case, you’ll never believe it took me 9 hours, 15 miles, 1 disassembled bike and 2 hopped fences (and probably a few broken laws) to accomplish a singular task that, in my previous life, would have been a mere hundredth of a typical day’s to-do list.

But, alas, this is the life we chose, and so rather than sipping Mai-Tais on Daytona Beach or watching Nascar at the Speedway, our day looked like this:

9:00 am: Forecast: 81 degrees and sunny. Reality: 67 degrees and raining.

12:00 pm: Too cold to go to the beach. Good day for errands. Found a Chase Bank in Ormond Beach, just 7 miles north of Daytona Beach. Maybe I can finally cash this check I’ve been carrying around in my wallet for the last month. And we can take our bikes for a nice ride along the beach. I’m sure Daytona is beautiful.

1:00 pm: Hmm. Choppy waves. It’s difficult to hold the dinghy still enough to get two bikes on it without losing them in the water. Looks like we’ll have to ferry the bikes from the boat to the dinghy dock one at a time. No problem.

dinghy dock daytona beach

It’s not easy getting to shore with two bikes.

2:00 pm: Two bikes on shore, dinghy locked up, camera ready for fabulous beach photos. Wait, the dinghy dock is in a sports complex with a locking gate. When do they close? Unfriendly park attendant says the gate shuts at 11:30 pm. No problem – we’ll be back before then.

2:30 pm: Palm trees! This is going to be a beautiful ride.

main street daytona beach

It’s always worth it when you get them to land though.

3:00 pm: Hmm. Some of these houses are in pretty bad shape. What is Daytona famous for again? Can someone steal your bike while you’re riding it? That guy looks like he’s thinking about it. Pedal faster.

3:30 pm: How many dollar stores and cheap motels can one town have?

4:00 pm: Chase Bank! 1500 miles of sailing from New York to Daytona and not a single Chase Bank. It was well worth cycling 7 miles to find one. Maybe we should take the scenic route back? Like, maybe the other side of the river?

chase bank daytona beach

It’s times like this when I’m glad we have our bikes.

4:30 pm: Man, this bridge is steep. But we have to see the beach. Oh, this side of the river is the nice side! Oh wait, it was just that one street. What is that girl doing sitting in a recliner on the sidewalk?

5:00 pm: So this is the famous beach! Where are the cars? Is there anything here but hotels?

daytona beach florida

A little detour via Daytona Beach.

5:30 pm: Another dollar store. Should we stop? We need paper towels and mayonnaise. We should double-lock the bikes. Ooh! Purple glitter Santa hat! Yes!

6:00 pm: Ryan’s bike is dead. The pedals don’t move the wheels anymore. Looks like we’ll have to walk the last 5 miles home. Slowly.

6:30 pm: My new purple glitter Santa hat is really handy for keeping my ears warm in the cold wind. But Ryan won’t walk next to me now. Did that drunk girl just yell “Ho ho ho” at me?

7:00 pm: Frustrated with walking. Bike is now in pieces on the front lawn of a diner where people can watch us bang bike parts with tools while they eat. Hey, the banging worked! The pedals are moving the wheels!

7:30 pm: Off to meet a fellow sailor at Scuttlebutt’s for a drink, if Ryan’s bike can make it there.

8:00 pm: We made it! Jason, who we bumped into in St. Augustine, just closed the deal on an Island Packet sailboat and is trying to find time to go cruising. He’s a tour bus driver for rock bands and his wife is a mortician, so between their two unusual jobs, they’re trying to organize time off to go sailing. I love it when interesting people drop into our lives!

10:00 pm: What time did that park ranger say this place closes? 11:30? Why is the gate locked? Shit. Climbing is one thing, but how are we going to get the bikes over the fence without the cops coming after us?

10:30 pm: Turns out our bikes are really lightweight. It also turns out Ryan and I are pretty good at scaling fences. Not sure where that talent came from. What does that sign say? “All vessels left for more than 2 hours will be removed at the owner’s expense.” Shit. Whew, the dinghy’s still on the dock. Let’s get the hell out of here!

So, just like that, we made it back to Hideaway with our bikes intact and no police sirens after us with just enough time for a glass of wine before falling into bed. Okay, so it wasn’t six hours of sipping Mai Tais in the sun, but we got a few hours of chatting with Jason in a dimly-lit bar. And we got to see a fair bit of Daytona, even if Daytona wasn’t really worth seeing.

And, most importantly, we put some much-needed cash in the bank, so we can’t say it was all for nothing.

It turns out when you simplify your life and sail off into the horizon, some stuff inevitably gets more complicated. But everything’s a compromise. We traded office chairs and Starbucks for cockpits and sunsets. So even when those sunsets are in ports as unimpressive as Daytona, there’s really nothing to complain about. You can always move on.

Photo Essay: St. Augustine, Florida

Four days after we said we would leave St. Augustine, we are still here. It started with excuses like “we need to go shopping,” then “we need to mail the cats’ permit applications to the Bahamas,” then “let’s look for a used spinnaker at Sailor’s Exchange,” then “we haven’t visited the fort yet”… until it became just plain, “It’s so pretty and warm. Can we stay just one more day?!”

I think the sunny weather had a lot to do with our inertia, but it also helped that St. Augustine, “the oldest continuously inhabited city in the United States,” was positively breathtaking. In a country that doesn’t really do old the way they do old in Europe, St. Augustine is an honest-to-goodness treasure well-worth visiting (or making your home).

From the moment we arrived, we were transported back to southern Spain in another century, but with hot showers and southern American comfort food, which is an addictive combination. If someone had served me chicken and waffles and mac-n-cheese every day when I lived in Seville, Spain, I just might have stayed forever.

St. Augustine only has a population of about 13,000, but you would think that half the population is involved in a festival of some kind at least once a week with the amount of parades they had during our mere week-long stay. It is, quite simply, the most adorable, tourist-friendly small town I’ve ever visited in the continental United States.

Here’s a photo essay portraying our visit:

st. augustine sunset

The sun sets on our first day in St. Augustine.

st. augustine spanish charm

The city’s colors show the Spanish charm of St. Augustine.

st. augustine street

St. Augustine’s streets are from another era.

st. augustine signs

Signposting St. Augustine’s antique beauty.

castillo de san marcos st augustine

Castillo de San Marcos: the fort that never fell.

fort matanzas st augustine

“The British are coming?”: Tasha playing sentry.

st. augustine christmas parade

The British are coming!

st. augustine christmas parade

Christmas is coming!

hells angels christmas

Even the Hells Angels celebrate Christmas.

jacksonville rollergirls

Santa’s “little” helpers arrive on rollerskates (and tug at my heart strings – my derby name used to be “Risky Chaser”).

st. augustine xmas parade

The parade was very inclusive.

thomas vesper tasha hideaway

St. Augustine was also a place to catch up with friends: Tasha with Thomas (s/v Vesper).

st. augustine bar

Dinner with Matt, an old friend from our days in Spain, and his wife Serena.

Fitness Afloat: Anastasia State Park

“Only mad dogs and Englishmen go out in the midday sun.”

Actually, it turns out it’s mad dogs, Englishmen and me.

It has been over a month of pushing our boat onward in cold weather, huddled next to our Coleman camping heater, doing long hours at sea or in the ICW, not getting to shore much and wondering if we had strapped our road bikes to the deck for no reason.

So, having already extended our stay in St. Augustine way beyond our original plan, we went on a mission to get out in the sun, and get a good sweat on by cycling to Anastasia State Park and running down the beach to the infamous inlet where our friends on Serendipity ran aground just a few days before.

Cycling through the center of St. Augustine to get out to Anastasia State Park reminded me of a past life when we lived in the similarly terracotta-colored city of Seville, Spain, bouncing our bikes along cobbled roads every day with the sun in our faces, passing tanned, smiling people lounging in outdoor cafes.

It was a pleasant 2-mile ride to Anastasia past an Alligator Farm with cycle paths most of the way there. There was a $2 entrance fee per person, but we figured it was a bargain compared to our old Manhattan gym membership – and it offered us sun, sand, waves, and no crowds, unlike our old Manhattan gym.

I was absolutely ecstatic to be at the beach, to say the least. The sun was scalding, the air was hot, I was sweating, and we were jogging slowly and steadily along a beautiful, secluded ocean stretch. It started out as a difficult run, since heavy sand makes for slow jogging, but it was shaping up to be a great workout. And I was so happy to be outside I would have pushed boulders up a hill, if you’d asked me to. I just lost my thoughts in my iPod music and thought about what temperature it would have to be before I complained about it being too hot. I decided on 100 degrees. Nah, maybe 120.

Then, about 2 miles into the run, I looked over at Ryan and realized that for him, this was it. Whatever temperature this was, it was too hot for him. Ryan was plodding forward with his head down as if trying to duck as far away from the sun as possible, with sweat pouring down his face and his feet moving heavily in the soft sand.

Looking at my watch, I realized that it had never mattered what time of day we went running before because every hour of every day this last month had been freezing cold. In St. Augustine, however, it turned out the intensity of the midday sun could easily shock the system of someone who’d been living like an Eskimo in a floating igloo for the last six weeks.

But Ryan trekked on bravely without looking back and, having survived the hot three miles to the inlet, took off his shirt and draped it over his head, panting, “We must be insane. It’s too hot for this!” I thought he might throw me in the ocean if I admitted how much I was loving it, so instead I suggested we head back before we ran out of water.

In the end, it was a gorgeous four-mile bike and six-mile run, topped off with an ice cream from the park store as a reward. And I even learned a few new things about running on the beach:

  • Running 6 miles in soft sand feels more like 8 miles. Maybe 10. It’s hard work.
  • Where the water meets the sand, the ground is firmer and easier to run on.
  • Focusing on maintaining your usual road-running speed is a bad idea. It’s better to relax, loosen up, and don’t look at the pace on your GPS watch (if you have one). Go with how hard your body feels like it’s working and get into your groove that way.
  • Bring lots of water. Anastasia State Park had no water stops along the beach and we ran out at about mile 4.
  • Running between the hours of 12 and 3 pm in Florida is not a good idea. Especially if you aren’t an alligator.

With my sore knees finally healing up after the painful pounding they took at the Outer Banks Marathon in November, which I was under-prepared for, I finally felt ready to hit the pavement again. Or the sand. Or anything, really. Hell, I’d be happy to run up mountains now that it’s finally warm enough to wear shorts and flip-flops! I say, “Bring it on, sun!”

running along anastasia state park beach

Fitness Afloat Lesson #342: Running on beaches is hard

inlet st. augustine florida

Ocean inlet entrance to St. Augustine, where our friends ran aground

anastasia state park map

Anastasia State Park map

Towboat US: When is it a tow? Salvage? Extortion?

“The thin veneer we call civilization can disappear where a shipwreck is concerned.” – Richard Loran, Shipwrecks of Great Britain and Ireland (quoted on Boat US’s web site, an affiliate of TowBoat US)

We ran aground three times in the middle of the channel in the ICW between Cumberland Island and St. Augustine, Florida, so we were pretty frazzled when we finally arrived to the entrance of St. Augustine’s inlet. Each time Hideaway slammed to a stop on a sand bank, I had visions of our keel ripping clean off the boat, leaving us with a sinking home, an aborted trip and two angry, swimming cats.

And we weren’t at all reassured by the channel entrance markers as we approached St. Augustine, either. They seemed to lead in all different directions and conflicted with the markers on our charts, causing us to circle for 15 minutes in front of one particular green buoy until we could figure out which side to pass it on.

Eventually we worked out if we hugged red buoy #2 on the way in, we were likely to have enough water under our keel, though we still had to get over a 7-foot barrier without running aground before we were safely in the channel (which is not much room for a boat that draws 5′ 6″). So we proceeded slowly, with our eyes glued to the depth gauge.

That’s when we heard the call over Channel 16 – it was Jessica from Serendipity. She was hailing TowBoat US for help, saying she couldn’t see the next channel marker after red buoy #2 and didn’t know how to proceed.

Ryan and I spun around to look, expecting to see Serendipity directly behind us. But we realized that there must have been another red #2 out on the ocean, where they were. So we listened intently as TowBoat US explained to Jessica that red #4 was missing and she should approach green buoy #5A directly from red #2 and take a left, as illustrated in the satellite picture below:

st augustine inlet satellite

Entrance to St. Augustine from Atlantic – red #4 missing at time of writing.

We were too far away to reach Serendipity on the radio to find out more about their situation, so we continued on to St. Augustine with the volume on our VHF turned up. And I had just picked up our mooring ball in St. Augustine when we heard, “Coast Guard, Coast Guard, this is Serendipity. We’ve run aground. I repeat we’ve run aground.”

I quickly tied up the boat and hurried down below with Ryan, then sat with my knees folded up to my chest next to the VHF, listening for any sign that our friends and their boat were okay.

Amazingly, Jessica sounded perfectly calm as she answered the Coast Guard’s questions:

“How many on board?” -Two.

“Is everyone wearing life jackets?” -Yes.

“Are you taking on water?” -No.

I felt completely helpless as words like “run aground”, “slamming”, “breakers”, “ten-foot waves” and “drifting” flew out across the radio waves.

Then the calls went out from the Coast Guard to Search and Rescue announcing a “distress call” and asking boats to look out for “sailing vessel Serendipity” which was now “adrift.” I said to Ryan, “I don’t understand. If they’re adrift, then they’re not aground. Which one is it? What’s going on?!”

After almost an hour, when we finally heard TowBoat US on the radio telling the Coast Guard that they’d secured Serendipity and were on their way in, we exhaled. And then we heard Jessica’s voice on the radio asking how many lines were needed. She might as well have been asking the captain what he wanted on his sandwich, she sounded so calm and collected.

Then the towboat captain said, “I understand your engine failed, is that correct?”

Ryan gave me a look that said “I don’t like where this is going” and then nodded when Jessica replied, “Negative. Our engine did not fail. Our jib sheet got wrapped around the prop.”

“Good answer,” Ryan said, and explained that he wasn’t sure how it worked, but he’d heard that if you lost your engine at sea, TowBoat US could claim an exorbitant “salvage fee”, even if you are a TowBoat US member.

I stared at Ryan incredulously, figuring he had to be making this up. “What kind of company makes money rescuing boats and then holds your boat for ransom when you call them to help?!” I shouted.

It seemed too crazy to be true, so I had to research this one for myself. And sure enough, what I found was some very alarming language on TowBoat US Fort Lauderdale’s website referring to the question “When is it a salvage?“

Here are some quotes:

“A marine salvage takes place when we rescue your boat whether it is aground, on a reef, beached, stranded at sea, flooding, sinking or in any other number of situations.”

“What’s the difference between towing and salvage? …Generally speaking, the courts have explained that towage is merely speeding up a vessel’s voyage without reference to any circumstances of danger.”

But if all I was looking for with my Towboat US membership was “merely speeding up my vessel’s journey,” I’d argue my money would be better spent on a bigger propeller. Then I could at least speed up all my journeys rather than just when I call my towboat company.

And because of this murky gray area with maritime law, Boat US Towing Services, on their site, advise members to have insurance against salvage, saying “The best protection against a salvage bill is adequate insurance. Boaters should make sure the policy provides for salvage up to the full value of the boat, not a percentage of its value, and that there is no deductible for salvage costs.”

Boat US distinguishes between towing and salvage on their site, saying “Towing assistance, like the pre-paid service available to BoatUS members, provides help for breakdowns and light groundings.” But what is considered “light” and “heavy” with respect to groundings is not clarified.

But they also put the responsibility on boaters to know the difference between a tow and a salvage before requesting assistance, stating, “Since the same marine assistance company often provides both towing and salvage services, it is essential that the boat owner reach an understanding with the marine assistance provider before action is taken… BoatUS Towing Service Providers are required to inform the captain of a boat before beginning any work if the procedure is salvage, not towing. If this isn’t possible due to wind and sea conditions, the towing company should tell the captain as soon as possible. However, boaters should not assume they will always be told. Boaters should always ask whether the job is towing or salvage before they accept a tow.”

So, basically, we pay for TowBoat US membership for those times when our boat might be in danger and we need help. And yet, according to the letter of the law, this is exactly the time we should be wary of calling Towboat US because if they succeed

Anchoring angst: What is the etiquette?

We were startled awake by foghorn blasts at 7:30 am in Cumberland Island, which I can now say is my least favorite way to be woken up other than having Charlie pee on me (which she does when her litter needs changing).

It took about four or five blasts for Ryan and I to realize that the horn was aimed at us, at which point I grabbed our iPad from the bedside and looked for signs of dragging. Our iPad has an “Anchor Alert HD” app that not only allows me to set very specific parameters for a dragging alarm zone, with an offset for our boat’s actual position, but it uses a satellite image to show me our anchoring position, and a GPS to track and record our boat’s movement throughout the night. So when this app says our boat isn’t dragging, it isn’t dragging. And according to our GPS tracks, we were almost exactly where we were when we dropped anchor the night before.

anchor alarm HD

Image capture of our anchoring position – the yellow shows the boat’s movement.

Yet the foghorn blasts kept coming, and outside our window there was an anchored motorboat floating so close that if the captain had wanted to see through our portholes that we weren’t wearing any pants, he could have.

So Ryan threw on some pants, ran up into the cold, windy cockpit and heard the motorboat captain shout, “You’re dragging!”

Ryan looked at me. I looked at the iPad and shook my head. Ryan shrugged and shouted back out of the cockpit, “No we’re not! We’re in the same position we were in last night!

I couldn’t hear the captain’s response, but it definitely wasn’t an admission of fault because the next thing I knew, Ryan was putting on all his foul-weather gear, grabbing the engine keys and anxiously asking me to help him figure out what the hell was going on.

By the time I got up to the cockpit to show Ryan the GPS anchoring tracks on our iPad, the captain who’d fog-horned us awake had left his enclosed pilot house and must’ve gone back to bed or something because he didn’t reappear or hail us on our radio, and he definitely hadn’t started his engine to try to help the situation.

“Who’s responsibility is it to move in this situation?” I asked. “I know we’re not dragging… how does he know he’s not dragging? And where the hell is he?!”

I was visibly annoyed, but Ryan reminded me that it was a good thing that we were woken up before our boats could touch, so if I got on the radio, I should be courteous and thank the captain for alerting us.

That made sense. Except I spent the next ten minutes trying to hail the motorboat in question on channel 16 while Ryan droveHideaway forward over our anchor to get as far away as possible from the boat, which was now perpendicular to us off our port side. And there was still no answer on the VHF. “Who blasts a foghorn and doesn’t have their radio on?!” I exclaimed.

But this wasn’t the only strange thing about the scenario – while rubbing our eyes and trying to figure out what to do, we scanned the anchorage and concluded the following:

  1. We were facing the same direction as the five other sailboats around us.
  2. We were in the same place we were in when we went to sleep.
  3. The motorboat appeared to be the only boat swinging in the opposite direction to the other boats in the anchorage.
  4. The motorboat had about twice as much anchor rode out as everyone else.
  5. The motorboat had an enclosed (i.e. warm) pilot house and a windlass.
  6. We had an open (i.e. cold) cockpit and no windlass.
  7. Points 5 and 6 meant it would’ve been way easier and more comfortable for Mister Motorboat to pull up his anchor and move than it would’ve been for me to haul up all our chain and our 44-pound anchor by hand just to drop it again a few feet away.
  8. The captain seemed to have concluded that this was our problem and not his, as he went back down below to drink his coffee while we froze in our cockpit, running our engine and scratching our heads.

Eventually, I saw the captain’s wife pop her head up into the pilot house, so I shouted to get her attention and mimed a telephone to my ear while pointing to the cabin down below. She appeared to get the message and disappeared below.

But instead of getting the captain’s wife on the radio, I got the captain. So I said, “Thanks for waking us up, Captain. I appreciate the warning. But we have a very detailed anchor alarm with GPS tracks that show we’re not dragging. It appears that either your boat is dragging or you’re getting pulled in a different direction because of the current. What would you like to do? Over.”

The captain replied, “Well, I’ve been monitoring the situation for the last hour. If you say you’re not dragging, that’s fine. You can stay there as long as you monitor your position. Otherwise you’ll have to move. Over.”

Ryan’s eyes got wide and he started pointing at the motorboat and shouting, “WE’LL have to move?! Why doesn’t HE @#$-ing move! We both arrived at the same bloody time last night! He’s in there drinking coffee in a t-shirt in his pilot house with a windlass and pointing in the wrong bloody direction from everyone else! I don’t mind him waking me up if we’re about to hit, but why am I the only one out here with my engine running trying to solve this problem?!”

I paused with my finger hovering over the VHF button. “Is it okay if I don’t say that?”

“Don’t say that,” Ryan said.

“Um, I guess we’ll monitor the situation. Over.”

And so we looked around us some more and weighed our options. We could move. Or we could wait with our engine on to see if the motorboat leaves. And if he didn’t leave, we could move then. But we had a really hard time anchoring the night before because the anchorage was narrow with a shoal marking the boundary, and because Ryan had cut the top of his thumb off cooking dinner in St. Marys. So I was the only one on board with two good hands to drop anchor with when we got to Cumberland Island.

And anchoring is not a job I’ve quite perfected yet. After resetting the anchor twice the night before because of poor positioning, my arms were killing me. So I was reluctant to pull up the anchor a third time if I didn’t have to. Plus, our plan was to stay another day and do some work online from the boat, so we weren’t planning to pull up anchor at all until the following day.

In the end, it turned out we couldn’t get a signal on our Verizon Hotspot at Cumberland Island, so we were forced to weigh anchor and give our motorboat neighbor his victory.

In hindsight, I’m not really sure what the proper anchoring etiquette is in a situation like this (I even Googled it and came up with some not-so-helpful threads on sites like Cruisers Forum), but I think we definitely learned that though it’s not nice to discriminate against motorboats (we know lots of lovely motorboat owners), it’s probably in our best interest to discriminate when anchoring.

Anchoring amongst your own kind (of boat) means you can better predict how the boats around you will swing, where they’ll settle and how they’ll react to the wind and current.

Next time, when anchoring in a tight harbor, we’ll be seeking out sailboats only for company.

Please share, what is anchoring etiquette? Are there rules?

Photo Essay: Cumberland Island, Georgia

Just a few miles from St. Marys, is Cumberland Island, a state park that was once home to a Spanish settlement, slave plantations and Dungeness, a mansion owned by the Carnegie family up until 1925. The mansion burned down in 1959 with rumors of the arsonists’ identities varying from a gang of scorned girlfriends of the Carnegie sons to vengeful squatters who got kicked off the island.

We spent the day exploring this extraordinary spot with our cruising friends from s/v Rode Trip and s/v Serendipity, thankful to have the opportunity to get our land legs back for a day. The views on the island were so spectacularly bizarre that everything looked like it had been Photoshopped, with its gnarled enchanted forest trees, antique car graveyards, red and purple sunsets, wild horses, wild turkeys, armadillos and ruins of old mansions.

For that reason, it seemed most appropriate to share this photo essay, giving Ryan his debut as s/v Hideaway’s official photographer.

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The path to Dungeness.

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Approaching the entrance to Dungeness.

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The ruins of Dungeness.

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“Wild horses… couldn’t drag me away…”

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Sharing my lunch with the horses.

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Antique car graveyard.

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The effects of storms on the beaches.

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Jessica (Serendipity), Stephanie (Rode Trip) & Tasha shell hunting.

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A friendly ghost crab we found on the beach.

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A live scallop found amongst the shells.

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Tasha with shell.

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Spanish moss was draped on the island’s live oak trees.

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Boardwalk across the salt marsh.

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Matt, Jessica, Tasha and Ryan posing for the camera.

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School’s out!

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Sunset after a great day on the island.

Sailing with Cats: Adopting a boat kitty

Our friends on Serendipity had been throwing around the idea of getting a boat cat for a while. So when they found out that Anthyllide got their sailing cat Allie from St. Marys last year, they decided to check out the local animal shelter to see if they had any kittens.

Sure enough, Georgiana, a 6-month-old gray-and-black tiger cat nudged and purred her way into Matt and Jessica’s heart and into the companionway of Serendipity. So naturally, being cat lovers, we offered to help out with any pet supplies they might need. And what it turned out Georgie needed was flea medicine. So Ryan and I hopped on our bikes and cycled a few miles down the road in search of a pet store.

After about 5 miles, we came across a boarded-up broken door on a storefront called “Pet Comics,” which appeared to sell dirty fish tanks, comic books, dolls, and used video games, amongst other oddities. Figuring we had the wrong shop, we turned to leave when a guy yelled from the parking lot that he was open and rushed over to insist that he had whatever we needed. And he was probably right because when he unlocked his shop, he opened the door to a bizarre world in which someone could buy fish food, plastic bracelets, Garbage Pail Kids cards, Sci-Fi paperbacks, plastic troll dolls and, it turns out, flea and tick spray…all in this one-stop shop for hoarders.

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“Pet Comic Store,” where you can buy a Richard Nixon mask to go with your flea spray.

With flea spray in hand, we were thrilled to have thrown a few dollars at a guy who looked like he desperately needed to sell some stuff before he was buried alive under it, and to help out our furry friend Georgie by keeping her bug-free.

Not to mention all those kitty play-dates we could now start scheduling with our boat buddies, Serendipity.

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Georgie’s found a good home with Matt and Jessica.

Fishing for help in St. Marys, Georgia

We heard rumors of a local nautical swap meet near the town cemetery on Saturday, so we headed over to see what we could find. And the best thing there turned out to be Vonn, a local fisherman who was selling an array of used fishing rods and gear.

Ryan and I have been threatening to learn to fish for years, knowing how useful it would be to catch our own food while cruising. Only we’ve never had the guts to throw a line in the water – probably out of fear of actually catching something.

But Vonn turned out to be just the man we needed – he was incredibly patient and chatty, and didn’t mind at all that we knew nothing about fish, fishing rods, or how to get started. In fact, he seemed to get a kick out of taking us under his wing, explaining the difference between trawling and bottom fishing, how to tie fishing line to lures, what kind of lures work on what kind of fish, and showing us how to work a rod.

In the end, Vonn set us up with a trawling rod, which we can also use to bottom fish, for $35, and talked us through our new equipment. And though we thought we’d exhausted Vonn’s patience, he wasn’t going to just let us go there – he came back to see us the next day and bring us some lures he’d picked out from his collection, refusing any money and saying all he wanted was for us to send him a picture of our first catch. Which of course we promised to do.

It turned out Vonn once dreamed of sailing to the Caribbean on a 41′ Columbia sailboat that slipped through his fingers when it was sold to another buyer before he could close the deal. He told me that he ended up staying in St. Marys and made good money in property investment. But he always wondered in the back of his mind what might have happened if he’d bought that boat.

So, I think Vonn may have wanted to live vicariously through us for just a little while, and we were more than happy to let him do just that. The challenge now is to go catch a fish and make Vonn proud.

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Ryan, showing off his new rod